I just wanted to express my condolences to your family.  I am writing because Jehovah gives us a hope.  John 5:28,29 says Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out...". You can read this in your copy of the Bible.  Please visit our website at www.jw.org. There you will find more  Bible based information.