When I think of Tom I think of a very wise straight shooter. A fine young man in high school as I feel sure he was all of his life. May he rest in Peace.
I'm a Christian in the ministry and I thought I would reach out to you in your time of grievance to give you some comfort from the Bible. The scripture I would like to share is 2 Corinthians 1:3,4
My sincerest and deepest sympathy
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