"Tiby" was my father's first cousin. She was a lovely and loving family member and the family historian of the Rubensteins--her mother was Grace Rubenstein, the same name we gave my daughter. Tiby called me to catch up on family happenings every year for decades, especially after the 1989 Rubenstein Family Reunion which she organized and for which she produced a Family Tree dating to 1820s

Tiby was my farther, Herman Rue's, first cousin.  Although I lost contact with her over the years, I will always remember her as a caring, generous person.  The Rubenstein Reunion was a high point for me, and I still display the carefully written tree and marvel at the time and effort it took her to compile it.  I can only assume she put the same detail into all aspects of her life.