Phil was my brother-in-law for 23 years.  He drove my husband-to-be (Pete) and me to the airport to catch our flight to Maui to be married...and from there on out, Phil was always there for us.  He was the best brother and best friend to Pete that any man could ask for.  Near the end of his life, Phil would call us every day to "check in," which meant so much to us.  We love you, Phil...