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Mary Kathryn Schmitz

1939 - 2022

  • 83 years old
  • Date of birth:  May 20th, 1939
  • Place of birth:  Fond du Lac, Wisconsin, United States
  • Date of passing:  June 30th, 2022
  • Place of passing:  Oakland, California, United States

Mary Kathryn St Peter Schmitz died peacefully June 30, in Oakland, CA surrounded by her loving family.  She was 83.

She is preceded in death by Dr. Thomas D Schmitz, her husband of 53 years.

From her start, in Fond du Lac Wisconsin, to Oakland, California, her chosen home of many decades, Mary lived a remarkable life shaped by a love of learning, nature, and literature.  

She passed to her greatest love - her children and grandchildren - the practice of thoughtful civic engagement and care for others.   They adored her, as did pretty much every one who knew her. 

From the  start it was clear she was very smart.  An excellent student right through her university and post-graduate studies, she was also a teacher.  One example was her work with the Oakland Museum where she, as a trained scientist, worked as a docent, teaching people to love the desert as well as creating touch exhibits for sight-impaired children.  

She mastered gourmet cooking from her first miserable failure at Welsh Rarebit as a young bride. From that inglorious beginning, eventually she learned to feed her  world. Over the years thousands gathered around her table to enjoy her feasts.

She was a  champion downhill and slalom racer  during her college years in Colorado. An avid recreational tennis player, her greatest  love was golf.  She played in championships locally, regionally, and nationally and loved the community golf gave as a player, a Green committee member and a course rater. 

One of the more surprising turns in her life was becoming a businesswoman. Faced with keeping the health club she owned with Tom financially competitive, she took on the active role of Chief Executive, turning the Courthouse Athletic Club into a profitable business employing  hundreds and attracting  thousands of satisfied members over three decades. 

She is survived by her four children Michael (Catherine Atkin), David (Pam), Mark, Jane (Adam Richards) and six grandchildren, Leslie, Charlie, Max, Erin, Theo and Ian. Her oldest brother Michael (survived by Mary Ann) preceded her in death. Her  five remaining siblings are Christine, Charlie, John, Therese and David. 

She was the family hearthstone, with an easy laugh and someone who filled a room with love. 

A Celebration of Life will be held on August 13th at 10:30 a.m., at Mountain View Cemetery in Oakland.

Among her many contributions Mary gave of her time and resources to Oakland Elizabeth House (https://www.oakehouse.org/donate) in Oakland and Girls Inc. of Alameda County.  If you wish to make a donation in her honor, the family suggests giving to one of these, to your favorite charity, or take time, as Mary would, spreading joy and laughter.

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Candle lit  by Julie Ruiz on July 10th, 2022

Sending heartfelt love to the Schmitz Family.
Julie, Isabella, Sean and Vance Ruiz (Schmitz)

Candle lit  by Olivia Melaugh on July 10th, 2022

I am honored to say that I spent many a wonderful weekend in the family Schmitz home as a childhood friend of Jane’s, and I was welcomed every time with warmth, love and vibrant conversation from Mrs. Schmitz and Dr. Schmitz. I see so much of her keen intellect and wit in Jane and I will always remember her and thank her for her wonderful legacy. May God bless and keep you, Mrs.Schmitz.

Candle lit  by Jane Schmitz on July 12th, 2022

From Theo Richards.

Mary was one of the best grandmas that anyone could hope to have. Without her we wouldn't have had some of the funnest Easter egg hunts ever.

Candle lit  by Jane Schmitz on July 12th, 2022

Once mom helped me to prepare a small apple pie for my father. She made a big one for the whole family but let me prepare something special for my dad. I loved spending time with her in the kitchen!  She always let me do whatever she was doing. I so loved just being around her, cooking or baking with her and hearing her tell stories of her parents and siblings.

Candle lit  by Lisa Hunt on July 15th, 2022

Sending many blessings to the Schmitz family. What a beautiful legacy she shared. All our love ??

Andy, Lisa, Abbie, and Emily Hunt

Candle lit  by Eugene Schmitz on July 15th, 2022

I will always remember Mary for her warmth and her generous spirit. I was sometimes in awe of her intelligence,talent and sophistication….an also her beauty. When Tom first brought Mary home ( to La Crosse) to meet the family I was so impressed by her good looks that I wondered “ How did Tom get her?” Together Mary and Tom created a great family. Comforting to know that they are together .

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