kate, its been 4 long years since you left,no chance to say goodbye. I miss you so much,i miss your quiet reassurance that everything will be okay no matter what is wrong. I miss your humour, little laughs at the sillest things.your kids are  doing ok.a little older and wiser,but ok.your grandchildren are phemnominol,so much like you sometimes others like poppa mike. is he there with you