Harry

Harry "Bud" A. Willever

1933 - 2021

  • 88 years old
  • Date of birth:  January 21st, 1933
  • Place of birth:  Easton, Pennsylvania, United States
  • Date of passing:  July 20th, 2021
  • Place of passing:  Mountain View, California, United States
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Harry "Bud" Willever, 88, born on January 21st, 1933 and passed away on July 20th, 2021. We will remember him forever.
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Candle lit  by Tony Willever on July 24th, 2021

Dad, you are loved and missed so much,  Life is never going to be the same.  Thank you for being a great dad and role model.  Rest now and be assured that mom is in good hands.  Hope you get to bowl a perfect game -- 300!!!  I love you dad, now and forever,
The "kid"

Candle lit  by Regina (DiMenna) Forster on July 25th, 2021

Our sincere condolences!   I have the fondest memories of our family get togethers....barbecues, picnics, watching he and my dad (Tony DiMenna) playing cribbage and of course the bowling leagues!    I remember them sitting on our front porch during he strikes from United...solving all the problems of the world!   He was such a wonderful man and he will be missed!  Love, Regina & Sue D.

Candle lit  by RUTH Attar on July 25th, 2021

Mr. Willever,
I have so much respect for you.  You were truly a devoted Husband and Father.    May your soul rest in Eternal Peace.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on October 20th, 2021

Three months ago you left us for a better place.  You are loved and missed.  Still in a bit of shock, but getting by and doing all we can to help granny.   Thank you for welcoming me into the family.   Most of all, thank you for the beautiful gift of Tony.   He is really grieving.  Please watch over him, comfort him and guide him. We love you.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on November 11th, 2021

Hey Pop,
Hope you are spending Veterans day with your old Army pals. Say hello to my name sake. It goes without saying that you are missed everyday and thought of often.  

Love you,
the Kid

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on November 11th, 2021

Veteran's day tribute below is from Tony.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on December 26th, 2021

Merry Christmas, Pop  You are dearly missed.   We are taking care of granny.  Holidays are just not the same anymore.  I miss the tasty meals you prepared,  especially your gravy.  Tony having a difficult time.   Please watch over him. I hope you have met up with daddy.  We miss you and love you.  

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on January 7th, 2022

You are loved and missed so much.  Granny doing okay and well cared for.  Tony is dealing with a serious health issue.   Please watch over him and comfort him.  I know he would really love a "visit" from you.  Much love,  your favorite daughter-in-law

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on January 21st, 2022

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Harry!!!  We certainly miss you.  Hope you have a beautiful heavenly day. Of this I'm certain,  many are gathered around to celebrate with you.   You are loved and missed so much.  Love you forever,  Terry, Tony and your favorite daughter-in-law.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on January 21st, 2022

Hey Pop
Mom sends birthday wishes as do I.  Miss you more and more. Think of you often and with good memories

The Kid

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on June 19th, 2022

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY pop.  
This is the first Father's Day that we can't talk or have a visit. I miss you so much and in many countless ways.  So many fond memories  to remember you by that makes me happy to have them.
Love Tony "the kid"

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on June 19th, 2022

Happy Father's Day,  my dear second father.   I'm beyond grateful that I got to visit with you in person last year.   Sadly,  it was the last time I saw you.  I remember the big hug we shared that day, what a wonderful gift. You are missed so much.   Love you,  Cheryl (your favorite daughter in law)

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on July 20th, 2022

Hello Mr. Harry.   Today marks one year since your unexpected passing.  I'll never forget the look on your son's face, especially his eyes, when he got the call. It will forever be seared in my mind. He is sad, but doing all he can to care for granny and continues to honor you, as do I. We miss you a lot.  Nothing is the same. Love you.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on July 20th, 2022

Pop,
Just a quick note from "The Kid" to let you know how much I miss you and love you. I am sure you are aware  Cheryl and I have mom cared for and she is doing well. Today was hard. Last night was also since it marked a year since the last time we talked.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on August 11th, 2022

Hi Pop, your cactus is putting on a great show in your honor.   It's strong, just like you.  I really miss you.
"The Kid"

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on August 11th, 2022

I love you Pop and I sure do miss you.
"The Kid"

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on October 5th, 2022

Hi Mr. H,  Today was really difficult for Tony.   Pretty sure you know why. I'm quite concerned about him.   He looks so sad and tired.  Please look after him.  We sure do miss you.  Our family has gotten much smaller in such a short time span. Love you.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on June 19th, 2023

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY
You are loved and missed so much.  The days are difficult.  So many questions,  and you are the only one that can answer.   Will do our best to figure it out.   It's really lonely without you. Love,  Cheryl

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on July 20th, 2023

Hello Mr. Harry. Two years now, and we continue to grieve for you;  guess we always will. We'll never forget that awful day.  We get through life, though it's not always easy. Tony's doing okay and misses you a lot. He is looking and sounding like you with each passing day. I get a kick out of that. Your cactus is in full bloom.  I'm fixing the area up in your honor.  I love you.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on July 20th, 2023

Hi Pop
Just letting you know how much you are missd and loved.  I think about you everyday and have great memories that still make me laugh.
Love you
The Kid

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on August 8th, 2023

Dear Mr. Harry.   Please help us.   Thank you for "visiting" Tony and Granny.   I know you are holding vigil 24/7.  Please comfort your son.  He's about to drop.  I miss you and love you.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on January 22nd, 2024

Happy Birthday Mr. Harry.
We miss you very much. Please help your son.
Love you, always.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on April 25th, 2024

Hello Mr. Harry.   Please watch over your son.  I will do everything I can to insure his comfort and  a full recovery.   Gosh, we miss you.  I wish we had the answers that only you can provide.   We'll figure it out I guess.   Help.
Love you.  

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on June 27th, 2024

Hello Mr. Harry.   By now you have granny by your side.  We are so sad, but take comfort in knowing that she is no longer struggling.  She has been made whole and is surrounded by family, friends and cradling her baby.  True to form, she left us on her own terms.   Please watch over Tony and comfort him. Love you both.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on June 28th, 2024

Today is going to be hard.  I ask you both to wrap your arms around your son.  Comfort him.  You raised a wonderful man.  For that, I thank you.  

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on July 20th, 2025

Hello Mr. Harry.   We stopped by to say hello.  Your passing has left a void that can never be filled. One never gets over the loss of our loved ones; you just get by the best you can.   You are greatly loved and deeply missed.  You live on through Tony and that's a wonderful thing.

Candle lit  by Cheryl Willever on July 20th, 2025

Hey Old Fart,
Hard to believe it's been 4 years since you passed.  I think of you everyday and have many memories that still make me laugh or bring me joy. At times I can feel your presence.
You are loved and missed.
The Kid

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