Carole “Hether” Hetherton Ludwick
September 17th, 1944 - March 26th, 2018
After her birth in London, England, Hether travelled on ship as an infant with her Mother to Canada. Her father was an allied soldier fighting in World War II, survivor of the Battle of the Bulge and a secondary invasion at Normandy. Her family reunited in Canada and later relocated to Anaheim, CA. She graduated Marywood High School in Orange, CA and Dominican College in San Rafael, CA.
Hether was a loving wife of 50 years, dedicated mother and grandmother. She was preceded in death by her parents Gordon David Hetherton and Nora Una Ryan, and survived by husband Edward C. Ludwick, children Hether (Victor Krasny), Edward “Ted” (Summer Martin), Gordon (Lauren Jensen-Akula) and Toby (Micheline Duterte). Grandchildren: Quincy Kye, Ruby Joy, Zoe Danielle, Edward “Teddy” Joseph, and Sophia Marilyn. Siblings: Bruce Hetherton, Kerry Ammann, Maria Hetherton Bales and Timothy Hetherton.
Known for her colorful outfits and warm sense of humor, Hether was a proud Johns Hopkins Fellow. She ablative absolutely loved teaching Latin and Ancient History to middle school and high school students. She was a mentor to many students, several of which were inspired to study Classics in their college careers. She was a mother to many cats (survived by Steiffie and Stuart). Known for her shopping prowess, she generously and thoughtfully supplied clothes, goods and gifts to her friends and family.  
She could have been a Jeopardy champion, tuning in daily, and impressing all with her vast knowledge cultivated by years of avid reading and Quiz Bowl coaching. Hether spent countless hours reading to her children, tutoring students and attending mass at Corpus Christi Church. A beloved Parishioner, she was known as an 8 o’clocker, starting each day by attending church.
Hether passed away on her Mother’s Birthday after a courageous battle with cancer. She will be greatly missed by her family, friends, students and cats. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 14th at 10am at Corpus Christi Church in Piedmont. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Corpus Christi Church.

Words cannot express what you meant to me, our family and so many friends, colleagues and students. Mom, you were amazing, you gave your life to your family and children and never ran out of patience, strength, compassion or love. You listened with your heart and gave with your soul, offering all you could daily. We were so lucky to be your children, we owe more than we could ever return to you in spirit, but won’t be able to return those gifts to your earthly being. The illness took you too soon and I cannot understand how this could have been God’s plan, but knowing your wisdom and unwavering faith, I trust that your glowing, loving and true soul will have gained you a special place in heaven. I will love you always, honor your spirit and remember you forever. Rest In Peace. I love you. Your youngest son, Toby Damien  

Aunt,
We will always remember you and miss you. We love you, Uncle Ted, and the cousins.
Best-
Larry, Brenda, Andrew, Adrian, Anthony Pescatore

Carole was a beautiful person and an incredible matriarch, with so much charm and style. She touched many lives and will be deeply missed. Lots of love to the Ludwick family. Love, Krissy (Red)

Our prayers are with you, Ted and family.  I know I speak for Lillian, Sandy, Susan, and all of us Hansens.  Our hearts go out to you in your loss of Hether.  May God's peace and the joy of having had her in your lives give you strength and comfort in the days ahead.  With our love and prayers, Carl

A heartfelt farewell to a treasured Lady. She lived her earthly life well, & leaves a legacy rich and broad. Wife & Mother for sure, Grandmother extrordinare, and educator unique. RIP dearest Sister-in Law.

Hether was an amazing lady, loving, caring, funny, smart, generous, a pleasure to be with anywhere, anytime. I will miss her so.
In one of the last emails that Hether and I shared, I wrote the following: Just the other day I was thinking back to a visit we were making to Vesuvius. Keeping in mind that both of us had done the climb before, I asked you if, in fact, you were planning to climb it again that day. I will never forget your response. Looking at me with eagerness and joy in your eyes, you said, “I wouldn’t miss it for the world.” That struck a deep chord with me and, ever since, I have reminded myself NEVER to feel jaded, NEVER to take travel moments (or other moments) for granted and ALWAYS to be accepting and thankful for the opportunities that life has to offer

Hether, Thank you for the many years of kindness and friendship. You especially made me feel valued by your support of my art depicting Ludwick family history. Remembering you fondly always, Cousin Chris

May you rest easy Carole, knowing that your wonderful legacy lives on in your many children and grandchildren.  Your unique sense of humor and style, your kindness, and your dedication to the greater community of your students and church will have impact beyond your life. I am grateful to have known you and will continue to celebrate your memory with your daughter at every opportunity.

I met Hether when I taught her baby boy. We had fun together watching him learn. After she moved to another school, she recommended me to the director. Once again we were teaching together. She invited me to help chaperone the trip to DC twice! We went to estate sales, dinners, lunches, parties, rides in Model A’s and Quiz bowl filming. She was the best, smartest, caring friend ever.

Couldn't be more proud to be your son. Thank you for being my Mom. I take comfort in knowing that you're watching over me and my siblings, our children and the families of kids and friends through the years. Promise to always keep you close in our hearts and minds. Love You.

Carole was truly a beautiful shining light of love, sweetness, and kindness in this world.  She never hesitated to come over to my desk with a smile and ask how I was.  Although we only knew each other through my work, she was truly one of the most kindest,  generous and caring souls I have had the honor of having crossed life paths' with.  I will very much miss you Carole.

I am so lucky because you were my Mom. You made sure I got a good education and you even helped me with my Latin homework. So well in fact that a classmate offered to pay me to tutor him. I love you Mom1. I think of you all the time and look to you as an example of how to live life with kindness and generosity of spirit.

I only found out today browsing Facebook that Hether was gone. Not terribly surprised because I'd realized I hadn't had an email in a while but devastated none the less. I had known her from the 5th grade in Buena Park at what she called Pifi - St Pius the 5th grammar school. We lost touch but recently reconnected. I am so sorry I never got to know her children. Love to Ed and all of you.