A branch has fallen from our tree,and it is not what it was before. It will take awhile to get used to.  I take comfort in the new branches that are growing in our children and grandchildren.  I have not always been close to Ben, but in the last few years we created a true friendship  He was more like a brother to me......... I will miss my friend, my brother  - my dad.

When I see his picture I realize he is no longer with me.  We had a close relationship over the past 14 years and there are many places and objects which remind me of him.  If he were here I know that he would comfort me and help me to realize the temporal nature of this life.  Even though he is gone, (remembering the way he thought about certain things) I will still rely on his advice.

Ben and I were best friends. we shared wonderful days together and were great companions. I will love him now and evermore...Doris

My Uncle Benny gave me the opportunity to start over and enjoy the life I have today.  Thank you for believing in me Uncle Benny!  You have made a difference in many lives, and will be missed tremendously.  I love you!  Give everyone in Heaven hugs for me.  'Til we meet again, hugs from me, Kristi
  

Benny, these last few weeks have been tough for mom and I. I come home expecting you to be sitting on the patio writing,reading or fixing something. I will miss you and the good times we all had together.  Love you Beckie

It's been more than year and a half since we last talked.  I still feel the loss and will carry your memory forever.  Rest well old man, perhaps we will know each other again...

Still miss you.  I know you will always be in my mind.  It was just recently that i was able to dispose of your well worn last pair of shoes.  I lamented over that moment, then realized they were just shoes.  I wanted to hang onto them: They were a reminder each time i looked at them.  They no longer have a place in my closet, but they will always hold a place in my thoughts.

No words are useful anymore.  I only hope that there is a "good" place in the universe for folks like you. Rest.