I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard this is, and I want to share some hope from the Bible. John 5:28, 29 states- “Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." God plans on bringing the loved one you lost back to you. That is what he wants to do. But for now, I am so sorry for your loss.