Hi Maver.  This is Doug Vandegraft and JoAnn Waszkiewicz.  We worked with you and Jay at Engaged Encounter in the late 90's.  We are so sorry to read about Jay.  We remember you both as being so friendly and caring.  We still have a plaque you made that reads "God has entrusted us to each other."  We hope you will receive comfort in the coming days.  Love, D&JA